I confess...

Being a wife only revolves on being a wife per se. Being a woman to your husband. For me it's not as how it is to be a mother. Being a mother is a humongous responsibility. It is not easy as how it is to be a wife. I chose to be a better mom to my kids rather than to become a good submissive wife to my hub. Don't condemn me first. He's got another woman, so what do you expect me to do? I chose not to cry over spilt milk...not even worth crying and ruining my days. I've got to be alive and going. I am a mom first and foremost. I know I've got some shortcomings being a wife but, I'd rather accept that there are things that don't usually work well for me. Acceptance work well for me here. But if only I was more submissive, I wouldn't have much problem now...oh but no...I'll rephrase my statement, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now. For a holier-than-thou judgment, don't crucify me...I just see things on a positive side of it. There's life after separation, as I underwent through it. But looking back, if only I was tooled with some foolproof ways to change his attitudes or let's say even mine too...maybe we're still here coping. But for me, I accepted my fate and I can honestly say that I am now a certified single-mom...and I'm [...still] happy!