Showing posts with label personal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal. Show all posts

Monday, June 1, 2009

I confess...

Being a wife only revolves on being a wife per se. Being a woman to your husband. For me it's not as how it is to be a mother. Being a mother is a humongous responsibility. It is not easy as how it is to be a wife. I chose to be a better mom to my kids rather than to become a good submissive wife to my hub. Don't condemn me first. He's got another woman, so what do you expect me to do? I chose not to cry over spilt milk...not even worth crying and ruining my days. I've got to be alive and going. I am a mom first and foremost. I know I've got some shortcomings being a wife but, I'd rather accept that there are things that don't usually work well for me. Acceptance work well for me here. But if only I was more submissive, I wouldn't have much problem now...oh but no...I'll rephrase my statement, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now. For a holier-than-thou judgment, don't crucify me...I just see things on a positive side of it. There's life after separation, as I underwent through it. But looking back, if only I was tooled with some foolproof ways to change his attitudes or let's say even mine too...maybe we're still here coping. But for me, I accepted my fate and I can honestly say that I am now a certified single-mom...and I'm [...still] happy!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Time heals and reveals.


'Coz am sick and tired of someone....who's just like a bitter pill to swallow.

All is well!

A day after the mediation conference at DTI, we received a call from Nokia Care that the unit was ready for pick up. And so I just want to thank Ma'm Cleo of DTI [if I am not mistaken...] who help us settle things in positive way. From the start naman I was so cool and settled dahil alam kong malaki ang chance ko dito. She even said, " pasalamat kayo at mabait si ma'm [...that's me] kung hindi eh pwede pa kayong maipasara at masuspinde and lisensya nyo". Also I want to thank Lalaine and Lou who is the AM of the store where I got the celphone...for attending the mediation promptly. Ayun after almost a month of waiting eh nagagamit na siya ng anak ko.

Big thanks...dahil mismong mother board ang pinalitan nila, which is dapat lang...salamat po!